Irene and John Kohut celebrated 56 years of marriage on Valentine’s Day, 2015.
“Neither of us had any real family or home life, so we thought let’s see what we could do on our own.”
Seems almost childishly simple, but 56 years ago on Valentine’s Day, John and Irene Kohut did just that. Their secret to years of happiness is simple.
“We didn’t have anything, so we worked together and built a decent life for ourselves and respected each other because of that,” said John.
The couple has actually known each other since they were 13, as their mothers were friends.
“He was from Newcastle and I was from West Drum. We were friends for a long time,” said Irene.
John dropped out of school at a young age to start working to support his family after his father passed away. By the time he was 17, he was working in the oil industry in the north. One day while he was home in the valley, he offered Irene and a friend a ride to school from her aunt’s house where she was living. It seems there was a connection, because not long after that John wrote her a letter.
“I wrote him back,” said Irene.
By the time they were 19, John was still working in the oilfield but was back living in the valley.
While they were planning a June wedding, the date was moved up a couple months because when Irene told her boss at the time they were planning to be wed, he fired her on the spot.
“He didn’t like me,” chuckles John.
“We decided we were going to get married, and I thought a winter wedding was the best as far as I was concerned,” said Irene.
It was not the days of wine and roses for the couple.
“We had a house, we didn’t have hot water or plumbing,’ said Irene. “Our kids remember.”
John recalls they were living in his mother’s old home in Newcastle, and with a growing family, Irene saw the need to buy a larger house. They were building new houses just a couple of blocks away with more bedrooms for the family. She went and made the deal without John’s initial blessing.
“She said ‘I’m moving, if you want to come, come, if not, too bad,’” John chuckles.
By that evening, the family was settled into their new house.
They had fun times, simple times in Newcastle. Family fun was often on the river behind a snowmobile on a truck hood. Neighbourhood kids congregated at the house. Even with all the struggles, they are proud to say they never went hungry. In all, they had four children and the family keeps growing.
“We’ve been very lucky, all of our kids have been married over 25 years, we have 12 grandkids and one great-grandson,” said Irene.
A family that works together, stays together.
“We started Hi-Way 9 Express in 1969 and it grew into a family business. And we were very lucky to be successful,” said John.
“We worked hard and everything came together. As the family grew, they became involved in the business. We were a team, it was all six of us not just me, it was all six of us,” he said.
This Valentine's Day the couple will be in Rosebud to celebrate and the romance continues.
